
On our way to scouts yesterday J and his friend Shawn were talking and the topic of girlfriends came up. Shawn asked J if he had one and J said yes. Shawn asked who and J said Gianna. (phew! I can handle that. Gianna and J have been friends for 5 years so that didn't surprise me but was a bit of a relief at least for a moment...) Then Shawn says, "Have you k-i-s-s-i-n-g yet?" (he actually spelled it) and J whispered in his ear I am assuming a NO (another phew) but then Shawn says, "Why? You should! You Should!" And J said,"Not until a certain time." Then Shawn says, "You have to have a catch line (or phrase maybe he said phrase) to get a girl but I guess if you already have a girlfriend. . ." then Shawn told him "the line" that has always worked for him and how to get a kiss. I wish I had a photographic memory so I could record it exactly the way it came out but "baby brain" has taken over and I loose most of what comes in pretty quick! So I called P and said I guess we better have "the talk" sooner than later. Really having the talk doesn't bother me it's a part of life but I am just not ready for my son to "loose" his innocence. Ready or not though it is time. I can tell you one thing I will definitely be keeping a closer eye on J and Gianna when they are together! This is a photo of them 5 years ago sorry it isn't the best photo but it is what I could find.