On our way to scouts yesterday J and his friend Shawn were talking and the topic of girlfriends came up. Shawn asked J if he had one and J said yes. Shawn asked who and J said Gianna. (phew! I can handle that. Gianna and J have been friends for 5 years so that didn't surprise me but was a bit of a relief at least for a moment...) Then Shawn says, "Have you k-i-s-s-i-n-g yet?" (he actually spelled it) and J whispered in his ear I am assuming a NO (another phew) but then Shawn says, "Why? You should! You Should!" And J said,"Not until a certain time." Then Shawn says, "You have to have a catch line (or phrase maybe he said phrase) to get a girl but I guess if you already have a girlfriend. . ." then Shawn told him "the line" that has always worked for him and how to get a kiss. I wish I had a photographic memory so I could record it exactly the way it came out but "baby brain" has taken over and I loose most of what comes in pretty quick! So I called P and said I guess we better have "the talk" sooner than later. Really having the talk doesn't bother me it's a part of life but I am just not ready for my son to "loose" his innocence. Ready or not though it is time. I can tell you one thing I will definitely be keeping a closer eye on J and Gianna when they are together! This is a photo of them 5 years ago sorry it isn't the best photo but it is what I could find.
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It is definitely the time. We had the talk with N a few weeks ago. It came up after a talk about hair on certain body parts. We were ready; we'd been discussing how to approach it a few weeks prior.
It's crazy how things change once you have that talk. What's more is we haven't even told him about the Tooth Fairy and other similar beings yet. Maybe we are weird and should have done the other stuff sooner.
BTW, I approve of Gianna too!
Oh funny I was thinking they were in the closet kissing. HAHA!! Welcome to the blogger world Love to keep up on the family.
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